4 Ways to Practice Thankfulness

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Being thankful is popular around Thanksgiving, but quickly dwindles away in light of Black Friday sales. However, gratitude should be integrated into our daily lives. God's Word commands us to give Him thanks. There's always something to be grateful for. If the ONLY thing you have to be thankful for is Christ making a way for us all to have a relationship with God, that would be more than enough! Most of you reading this, though, have numerous reasons to be thankful. In today's post, I am going to be sharing some ideas I  have learned from others on how to reflect on things we are thankful for daily.

1. Give thanks to God each day. 

First and foremost, we should begin our prayers daily by giving thanks to God. Psalm 100:4 tells us to "Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name." It's easy to go to God and unload our laundry list of things we need/want, but His Word commands us to give Him thanks for what we already have first. Give thanks to Him for all He has done, all He has given you, and simply for who He is.

2. Start a gratitude journal.

This is something I have just started doing again. A friend shared this with me a while back. Write down 5 things you are grateful for each morning and each night. Here's the catch: Never write the same thing twice. This makes you really dig deep to think of things you are thankful for.

3. Create a Habit of Giving Thanks Instead of Complaining 

A bad habit I really want to break is complaining. I don't want to complain at all, about anything, ever because Philippians 2:14-15 says:

Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, "children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation." Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky.

Not complaining is a huge way we can shine for Jesus. Believe me, people around you will see your light shining if you never complain. Someone who never complains is going to stand out. (Of course, you can still pour out your heart to God in prayer about things that bother you.)

Something I love that Joyce Meyer said is that it is easier to form a good habit than break a bad one. So.. in my case, I can form the good habit of being thankful and break the bad habit of complaining. So, every time I am about to utter a complaint, I give thanks instead. I just started doing this and it is amazing how quickly it can change your perspective.

Below are a few examples that Heather Lindsey posted on Instagram that will also help you look at things in proper perspective:

I am going to add a few things to this list:

• In heavy traffic? Thank God you are physically able to drive, have gas, and a vehicle to get you where you are going!
• Didn't get a close parking spot? Thank God you are able to walk.
• Dislike the weather? Thank God you have warm clothes, central heating & air, and insulation in your home.. AND that you have a home.
• iPhone, iPad, or laptop going dead? Thank God you have these items. In 3rd world countries, these are unheard of and many right here in the states cannot afford these items.
• Power outage? There's nothing like a power outage to remind us what a blessing electricity is! There's very little we can do without it.
• Living paycheck to paycheck? In comparison to people in third world countries, you live a luxurious life. Things that we often take for granted as "basic needs" would be luxury items to them: safe home, clean water, food to eat (choices of what to eat), hot water (baths/showers), a car, medical care.. Just to name a few.

4. Start a blessing jar!

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 I just started this a couple months ago. I saw this idea on Pinterest one time. The idea is to use a jar (decorate it all you want-- the above is not mine -- I decorated mine with red ribbon!) and every time something good happens (big or small), write it down, and stick it in the jar. On New Year's Eve, review all the good things that have happened this year. Praise God for each thing as you jot it down, as well as when you reflect on them as you read them on New Year's Eve.  So, although I started mine very late in the year, I knew God would do many great things before the end of the year. My jar is already pretty full. I am sure this will help me remember many things I might have otherwise forgotten! As full is my jar is from a few months, I can imagine how full it will be New Year's Eve 2016 (if Jesus tarries) when I have things in it from all year!

Let's make "thanksgiving" a way of life, not merely a holiday. 

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Happy Thanksgiving! 

In God's Crazy Love,

Rachel Marie

You Can Be Fashionable & Modest: the Proof is in the Pics!

I had someone comment on my "Modesty Matters" video and ask if I would be willing to show examples of how I dress modestly. I love dressing modestly AND fashionable, so I would love to show some examples. The keys are: cover-ups, tank tops, and cami secrets. With these tricks, you can make ALMOST any top modest (unless it's too tight or see through). Obviously, cover ups are for anything strapless or spaghetti straps and tank tops/cami secrets are to wear under anything too low cut.

Some of these are not full length, keep in mind that I didn't originally take these photos for this purpose. These are just a few random photos from my 2.5 year ongoing modesty journey :)

High/low skirts are my absolute favorite!! They are modest, stylish, and fun. This shirt is a valuable piece for making other pieces modest or a standalone. You will see it better in the next pic. It blends beautifully under a dress or a shirt that needs adjustments to be modest :)

This dress has spaghetti straps, so I added this beautiful top (ok, for some reason you still can't tell, but there's black jewels all along the top of it). It serves 3 modesty purposes: it covers the back, makes up for the straps that are thin in the dress itself, and covers  he front where the dress was too low... And just for fun: adds a little extra glam :) 

Spaghetti strap high/low dress with cover up

Aztec shirt that was made super short, but added a tank under it and pair it with high/low skirt.

Sequin cami under this dress :)

Added a cami & cami secret to cover the top better with high/low skirt

Sweater cover up: you can use to winterize a summer shirt or one that's not modest by itself. Oh, and meet my Maltese: Barbie :)

Finally found a picture where you can see the details of the shirt in the first 2 pictures. I wore it under this shirtsleeve shirt because the neckline was way too low.

My favorite modesty guidelines are from purefashion.com:

To me, the main rules of thumb from above are that necklines should be no lower than 4 fingers below collarbone, skirts/dresses/shorts should not be shorter than 4 fingers above the kneecap, nothing see through, and a cover up for tanks & halters.

And if you don't know what cami secrets are, they are wonderful when you don't want to add a whole extra layer to be modest in the summer, you simply attach to undergarment and voila, looks like you have on an entire cami! They have these in all different colors (more than what's shown above) and some in animal print. You can buy them online.

I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.

1 Timothy 2:9-10 NIV

Note: I don't believe this verse literally means you can't wear jewelry. It just means your beauty should come from your relationship with Christ and the fruit of it.

So.. There you have it. I hope you will all join me in dressing modestly! To find out more about WHY you should dress modestly according to the Bible, watch my video, here: http://youtu.be/z3dM6DiDliI